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Being a Mother – Part2

5th September 2020 I got a positive result.😁 Since it was too early initial scan nothing came up. Took a blood test for them to check the hCG levels. Doctor asked me to come back after 2 weeks, still unsure if everything is alright.
2 weeks felt so long for me..
Finally.. at my next appointment, they could see the fetus. A very tiny dot. Could not hear the heartbeat yet. Again another blood test was done. I am very scared of needles..but the endless number of blood tests made me to overcome this fear actually. I was like blood test right.. come on take my blood🤣.


Again waited for a week and in my next scan.. I heard the most amazing sound. Baby’s 💓 it was loud and fast. I was filled with tears and I was filled with love.❤


Doctor advised me what to eat and how to be careful in the initial months. I have heard most women have upset stomach or vomiting in the initial months.. I guess I was lucky, I did not have much of that.. only two or three times at the most. Smelling lemon helped me I guess 😀
I was happy and everything was going well. Since it was during covid wave..it was at the start , at my office they allowed me to work from home.
We are staying away from parents and it was decided that, we will be going to parents place when I will be around 5 to 7th month of pregnancy.  My in-laws wanted us to stay with them, whereas my parents wanted us to stay with them.
I was not sure what to decide..  should I go with what my husband is suggesting ..that is to stay with his parent’s or should I go and stay with my parents!

To be continued..

Tolerance

Is it okay to tolerate someone when you don’t like what they do?
Is it okay to adjust to their
behavior?
When you know they constantly lie..is it okay to not bother?
Tolerance leads to the scariest results.. one day you are gonna reach your limits and its going to be the worst.
It’s always better to express what and how you feel.. let them know you don’t like the way they act. They can’t fool you and you know what’s going on. If they are going to continue doing whatever they like, that means they are not the right person to be in your life.
Even if you are going to lose such people..its their loss and not yours.

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Life goes on..


There comes one point when you realize this time you need to let go.

Some mistakes cannot be undone, some hurts cannot be forgotten and some people can never be forgiven ..no matter how close they are to you.

Never lose your self respect and never lose yourself over someone who knows they are wrong but still never ready to accept and change themselves.
It’s the sad truth but you need to accept that in the past and present they did not give you the importance,  did not stand up for you.. then in the future also they are going to be the same.


Life gives you the choice to hold on or move on.
Whatever you chose.. life goes on.