Life is uncertain

Life will be always complicated.
You will have ups and downs.
Somedays you will be dancing in joy.
Somedays you will cry.
There are happy moments that makes you smile and laugh.
Sometimes you will be in good health and sometimes you go through sickness.
There are failures.
There are success.
You meet good people.
You learn lessons from wrong people. This uncertainty makes you stressful. But keep faith and keep going. Life isn’t always going to be perfect but you will get what you wanted one day. Amazing things will happen in your life as you move forward. You will get stronger and you will learn to overcome the struggles. You will come to know you have more potential and you are way more capable.
In life there is no right time or a wrong time for doing things.
Be happy now.
Embrace yourself.
The choice is with you to make your present better. Do more of what makes you happy.

It’s okay to pause

It’s okay to pause for a while..
Save your efforts for doing something good for yourself.

Make a to-do list
Eat healthy and eat what you like
Excercise
Go for a walk
Pamper yourself
Listen to your favorite music
Avoid negative people
Think positive
Be thankful
Express your feelings
Don’t focus on what others think about you
Say no to what you don’t like
Write a diary
Help someone
Do what you enjoy
Be yourself.

When you stop, you get to know more things about yourself and your life.

You get answers.

You remind yourself about your goal.

You organize your thoughts.

You learn to appreciate what you have.

You replace bad with good.

You come out more focused on what matters.

Let go

Let go of someone who only knows to make you cry.

Who makes you question your life.

Who does not realize your value.

Who makes you feel like you are not important.

Who does not consider the efforts you put.

Even if you tell them that you are hurt, they say you are overreacting.

That someone who instead of giving apology for their mistakes, tells you to forget it as what happened is a history.

Who does not understand you.

Who makes you feel miserable.

Who disrespects you.

Who was never there when you needed support.

Nobody deserves your tears.

Hurts of past makes you stronger

Hurting past comes by saying,
How can you forget the one who cursed you?
Have you already forgiven the tears they caused you?
Again my mind goes wondering..
Heart aches and my memories keeps me reminding..
You were never wrong,
You deserve to be respected,
Never forget the lessons they taught you.
It’s only because of them you have become stronger.
Never feel sad again thinking why they cursed you.
You are already blessed.
Whatever they say out of their selfishness will never affect you!

Tips for Flying with baby

Travelling with infant can be overwhelming especially if it’s your first time. My baby girl first flight was when she was 2 and half months old. Doctors usually recommend to wait for at least 3-6 months for the baby immune system to develop before air travel. Especially during pandemic, it’s not safe to travel but if its unavoidable then always good to consult with a pediatrician and follow safety measures.

Here are somethings I would like to share which can make your travel easier:

  • Reduce hand baggage as much as possible: Not only hand baggage but try to reduce the overall luggage. While packing try to carry only needed things. Try to courier the things that you will not need immediately. This will make your travel easier. On our first travel, we did a mistake of taking overweight baggage and had to pay lot extra for it. Also, carried 3 back bags along with the baby it was really exhausting.
  • Baby carrier: Wear the baby in a baby carrier or a baby sling so that you can be hands free. If you will be using the baby carrier for the first time, its always better to try it on with the baby and see how it works before your travel day. When my baby was 2 months old, I took her in a sleeping bag so I could not carry anything else except a diaper bag. In my second travel, I used a baby carrier, I could carry 1 laptop bag, camera bag and diaper bag with me and it was not exhausting.
  • Security check at Airport: Security check might be different in every airport. My first travel I carried baby in sleeping bag and the security person did not make me wait for long and helped me first. My second travel I used baby carrier and a kind girl helped me to keep my bags in the checking area tray. She even asked the security check person to help me first as I am carrying baby. But when I walked in to the security check place the security asked me to go back and put the baby carrier in the tray. I had never practiced taking out baby by myself from the baby carrier, I was too scared that I will put the baby down but it went well and was not that difficult.
  • Extra diapers: Carry in diaper bag only the number of diapers that baby needs with a 1 or 2 extras.
  • Baby wipes: Take baby wipes with you its very useful in cleaning baby and also you can use for yourself. Hand wash is not available in most of the baby care rooms, they are replaced with sanitizers now.
  • Baby clothes and Towels: Take 2 or 3 extra clothes and towels incase baby vomits or overflow of diapers.
  • Extra cloth for yourself: Carry an extra dress for you incase gets dirty.
  • Blankets/ swaddles: A small baby blanket to cover the baby if it gets cold while travelling.
  • Socks and Gloves: Take an extra pair of baby socks and gloves. Babies will suck their fingers hence to keep them clean its better to have a change of gloves.
  • Cover baby in layers: Before you travel it can be hot and when you are travelling it can be cold. Instead of directly putting warm clothes on baby, it’s always better to first make them wear something light and then add a layer of another clothing if it becomes cold. In my first travel I did a mistake of putting on a thick sleepwear for my baby as the flight travel will be cold. But once we reached our destination the climate was hot. This made her to get red bumps on her legs, which took at least 2 weeks to clear up.
  • Toys: Keep a small toy for your baby in your hand bag/ diaper bag, take something which your baby likes to keep them happy.
  • Feeding: It is said that don’t feed the baby before boarding flight but its better to feed them before boarding if they are hungry or else you will have to handle a fussy baby throughout your travel. If possible, schedule your feeding so that you will be able to feed the baby while take off and landing to help them swallow to avoid the ear pain. This worked for my baby in my first travel when she was only 2 months old. I fed her during takeoff and she was sleeping in most of the travel. But did not work in my second travel, she was all playing while takeoff and she cried when I tried to feed. I just left her to play but before landing she started crying out so loud. The flight attendant asked me to keep speaking to the baby as she was crying due to ear pain. She calmed down after around 10 minutes.
  • Stay hydrated: All the mommies make sure you eat well and drink lots of water during your travel. Also keep your baby hydrated.
  • Pre book cabs: If you have the option to pre-book the cabs in your destination then do it, this will help you to avoid the waiting time and to avoid the last minute cab troubles.

Back to Home

Since I was on maternity leave, I was staying with my parents at Delhi for few months now. I had my mother to help me look after the baby, I did not have to cook 😁, My dad who cooks my favorite dishes and special biryanis… Now that I think of it, I rarely did any housework. Sadly, my leave has almost come to an end, have to join work on Oct 14th. Me and my husband are back to Hyderabad. Its only 2 days now but it’s been too hectic with all the unpacking, arranging and cleaning. With just two of us doing all the work… now I know it’s not an easy task to do housework plus looking after the baby. Hopefully things will get settled a bit once the organizing is done. Specially I have to maintain a schedule for doing things… These two days everything was messy and delayed. Its going to be a completely new experience… hopefully a good one 👸(Being positive)

In the coming weeks I plan to share any new tips and my travel ✈ experience with baby . There were somethings which I did not know as a new Mom and I have learned now. Looking forward to share those tips with you soon. 😊